Random thoughts

Hello friends. Today ill like to express my views on a somewhat sensitive topic. Parenting is the process of raising your child. There are different models demonstrated in the society today and parents tend to follow these models based on their own nature and what best suits them. "Rules of the traffic model", "strict father model", "reward and punishment model" to name a few. Today ill like to discuss when is that parenting enters child abuse. Is there a fine line that differentiates this, and if yes when do we realise we have reached that line? Does spanking your child for wrong really make you cross that line or is it something else? Before continuing, let us make an assumption. All the parents in the world love their child/children, even the ones that have been charged for child abuse. So if every parent loves their child, why would they abuse them? One argument says that parental choices and other unforeseen circumstances that place families under ext...

**Before starting off with this post, I would advice user discretion. Comments in this post are strictly personal and mean no harm to any individual, organization, country, planet or galaxy. Its been close to 9 months now since I have landed in the land of opportunities (Yes friends I am talking about the United States of America), I had a shine in my eyes and sigh of releif in my breath. Everything in this country is automized and fair, unlike in India, where most government undertaking are still manual and run on bribe. I had a dream (I still kindda have it), that Ill learn as much from this country go back and try my best to implement it in my country for the benefit of my countrymen. Well to be frank that dream is now fading out........ The first roadblock: Social Security Number Most of the readers might be knowing, in the US each individual is a number. He lives, works, eats, excrets using this number. Without this you donot exist here. Well I came here on an H1-B and wanted to s...

Well, I have not spent much time in this industry, so this post might feel unjust to a few people reading it. But frankly, everything you read here is my personal opinion. As far as I am concerned, I have spent a whopping 3 yrs in this industry where work is something you need to create and then sell. Hi, this is Ashish Singhal, a Software Engineer. Today I am here to present a few thoughts of mine on the industry I work in. Well lets start with defining Software according to my dictionary. "Software is a combination of what you know i.e. the tools used, programming languages, operating systems etc. and what you architect with what you know i.e. logic." With the advent of this relatively young industry, people have laid importance on the fact that "knowlegde (derived from information)" is the driving power in todays world. Pieces of information potrayed in a specific way aids understanding of an individual and drives an organization. Now given this background I woul...